Second Date Rules For Women
Making it through the first date is always a little
unnerving, but by the second date you know you like this man, and in your effort to ensure he likes you back
you may be questioning what the second date rules for women are. Dating is a numbers game, and with each
passing date the possibility of forever becomes stronger, so it becomes more important for you to continue
making a connection with him in the hopes of producing date number 3.
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If you met this man online, the
second date may be the one where you two begin to drop pretenses and let your real personalities shine through. At
this point it becomes beneficial to allow him to see your goofy sense of humor, or your analytical way of looking
at life. The first date inevitably involved a lot of the standard “getting to know you” questions, but this is the
one where you can actually get to know each other. Keeping in mind the most basic of dating rules, don’t be afraid
to be yourself and show this man the true you. After all, you can only keep up a polished version of yourself for
so long before eventually you will have to drop the act. You might as well allow him to get at least a quick peek
at who that woman is this second time out.
Doing something active and fun
on a second date is always advisable. The first date probably involved a lot of talking, and this one should as
well, but it can never hurt to get each other into a competitive atmosphere through something like bowling or
miniature golfing. In this setting the conversation will still flow, but you will get a chance to see each other in
a different setting. You would be surprised to see how differently some men react to competition, and you may find
yourself picking up on characteristics you wouldn’t otherwise have seen so early in the dating game. Don’t be
afraid to beat him if you can, or to fail miserably and laugh at yourself if you just aren’t that great. Either way
you will get the opportunity to see how he reacts and this could end up telling you a lot about who he would be as
a partner in the future.
Since you are probably a little
more comfortable with him by the second date, don’t be afraid to ask some of the more personal questions that
eluded you on the first date. Find out what his family life is like, and what kind of relationship he maintains
with his parents. Ask how he feels about pets, and if you know children are in your future don’t be afraid to ask
him how he feels about one day being a father. If done tactfully it doesn’t have to be a scary question, and if you
know you want kids and he knows he doesn’t; wouldn’t you rather know that now? This same theory applies to any
relationship deal breakers you feel strongly about. It’s much better to get those out of the way early on rather
than to be blindsided once you’ve already fallen in love with him, and the second date is likely a more comfortable
scenario for asking than the first.
You can find out a lot about a
man on the second date, and you can show him a lot more about yourself. If all goes well, a second date will lead
to a third and so on and so forth until you have firmly solidified yourself into his life. Then there will be the
whole “taking things to the next level” test, but for now you can rest assured in knowing that you just have to get
past this second date!
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